Females are at higher risk of contracting HIV than males due to their sex and gender. Sex defines the body part that differentiates a female from a male while gender defines the role and responsibility of a female in the society. In Nigeria, young women between the ages of 15-24 years old are at high risk of getting HIV than young men of the same age. Females can acquire HIV through anal, vaginal, anal and least of all, oral sex. The risk for HIV infection through the vagina is high due to the wide surface area of the vagina which can hold the HIV infected semen for days. The vagina can also tear easily from friction during sexual intercourse thereby paving way for infections.
Now, let’s talk about how gender increases the risk of women to HIV infection. Men believe they have the power to make decisions in a relationship. They have multiple sexual partners increasing the risk of their female partners by not using condom. Also, women don’t always have the power to say NO to sex; and  young women don’t always have the power to decide on whom to have sex with due to peer pressure or early marriage which could be as a result of the financial status of the family. Rape also increases the risk of women especially in a society that believes rape is the victim’s fault thereby forbids  her to speak up.
As a LeNNiB Champion Advocate, I speak against sexual violence. Women have the power to question and change harmful gender expectations. Women have the right to say NO to sexual violence. Women have the right to say NO to sex when they do not want it. Women have the right to SPEAK UP if they are experiencing sexual violence in marriage or relationships.