Tagba and Eso, his girlfriend, after sharing a meal (neither of them were under the influence of any substance) began talking and then kissed, but he objected when she began to undress him saying they were in the lecture room. Physical intimacy had been a strain throughout their one-month relationship as she was far older than him and more sexually experienced than he was (a virgin), also due to Tagba’s religious beliefs he intended to abstain from sex until marriage which he had clearly explained to her several times she attempted to take things to another level, his verbal objections were sufficient to convince her.

But on this particular occasion, she only reacted more aggressively when he told her “no,” which was entirely out of character based on their previous experiences. She forced her hand into his pants in an effort to manually stimulate him, but her movements were so violent that they were quite painful and originally futile. Even as this was happening, he tried to pacify her, saying: “You know how I feel about this, please just listen to me,” but it was as if she couldn’t even hear him.

He then resorted to the excuse “But I don’t have a condom” and was shocked how excited she was and she said, “I don’t have one either”.

He contemplated some kind of physical resistance when she climbed on top of him, but his mind immediately imagined scene of him trying to explain to the police how and why he gave his girlfriend a black eye. The fear of being expelled for fighting in the school premises clouded his head. He also feared been accused of attempted rape if she was accidentally injured in some way.

So he gave up the fight and was raped.

Rape is an unlawful sexual activity, most often involving sexual intercourse, against the will of the victim through force or the threat of force or with an individual who is incapable of giving legal consent because of minor status, mental illness, mental deficiency, intoxication, unconsciousness, or deception. Rape was long considered to be caused by unbridled sexual desire.

Most male rape victims do not understand they were raped, others who understand are too ashamed or afraid to speak up. These rape cases most times go unreported, victims uncarted for especially regarding health and sexual safety owing to the society focusing more on female rape victims. Males are raped daily by aunties, caregivers, nannies, girlfriends and even folks from their own gender(men).

It is alarming to note that rape and sexual assault affect young men who make up a disproportionately large part of the teeming youths and teenagers each year in Nigeria. And younger people, especially between ages 10-34years, are at the highest risk for sexual violence. Besides the physical and emotional trauma, they may also be at risk for sexually transmitted infections such as HIV, hence the importance of including post exposure prophylaxis (PEP) as an immediate need of a rape victim regardless of their gender.

What is PEP?

PEP is a combination of three antiretroviral drugs that can be taken soon after a possible HIV exposure. It is designed to prevent possible HIV infection. For effectiveness, it has to be administered within 72 hours (3 days) of exposure. PEP can lower the risk of HIV infection by 80% if taken as prescribed.

Who should be given PEP?

  • People who think they might have been exposed to HIV during sex including rape victims (who are HIV-negative and came into contact with bodily fluids from a rapist who is HIV positive through the vagina, anus, eyes, mouth, skin with cuts or wounds or do not know their assailant’s HIV status and seeks medical attention within the 72-hour period)
  • Injection drug users who recently shared needles or other related items
  • At risk Health Workers.

PEP should be taken only in emergency situations. It is not meant for regular use in the events of frequent exposure to HIV.

How long is PEP taken?

PEP comprises a series of three drugs that is taken once or twice daily over 28 days. It is important not to skip any doses.

Series of HIV tests are required to check status while on PEP. The recommended timeline for follow-up tests after exposure for anyone on PEP are: 30 days and 90 days

What are the side effects of PEP?

PEP is a safe course of therapy, but about 40% of those who take PEP may have side effects that usually range from mild to moderate namely: nausea, fatigue, vomiting, headaches and diarrhoea which are treatable.

Uruntie Rejoice Oritsemoyowa – 2022 LeNNiB Champion